My Way of Life

Updates!

2010-08-18T23:40:00.002+08:00

Long abandonned this blog page.

well, it is not that i dont want to blog. itz just, i dont have the time and interest in blogging anymore. maybe.

started 2nd sem. my achievement so far:

1.chairman of young entrepreneurship society
2.vice chairman of entreprenuership society
3.organizing chairman of chinese culture week
4.recruitment drive, fund raising, interaction day organizing committees

maybe i just wanna drown myself with work to forget the past. hoping that it will be the best way to forget one person. anyhow also, i'll just focus on my life and try to achieve the target and my goal of life. wishing her to have a good life over in sg long. i'll pray for you!

met a lot of new people in life. luckily, they are just adoreable. my buddy/brother/heng dai! winn shern. thanks for the support for everything we have done for our society. i think we are the best partnership in the society so far =) met the 4 girls. considered as sisters. life with them are just fun! hehe. my committees/team, we will work together for a long time! thanks for the support!

and wanna wish abigail tan and jessica teh for meeting their loved ones this semester. hope the relationship of both of you will work. god bless.

well, thats all for now.

live life to the max!

cheers =)

It Is Worthful

2010-05-26T23:26:00.002+08:00

At times, I asked myself this question. I did so much for this person, is it worth?

If you too ask me this same question, I'll answer you, yes! it is worthful. I found my mood to blog today after abandon this page for so long. Let me update about myself, I shifted to 1221 in Westlake where I had a chance to understand her lifestyle and could spend precious 2 weeks with her. Conclusion is, I understand her more when I shifted in and stayed together with her. Understanding her lifestyle and be there for her when she need someone is just the most awesome thing that happen in my life. I appreciate that. And it is definitely worthful.

Being the person to support her and help her from the back will always be my responsibility. Seeing her unhappy when she lost her phone is just unbearable. Couldnt do anything to get her phone back really makes me guilty and i felt useless. I could only say sorry to her for couldnt do anything. Yet, she still comforts me by saying I helped a lot already. But deep inside your heart, I know you dont feel good.

Her farewell is just another sad way to depart. But, since she had already made her decision, why dont we just accept the fact and maintain the relationship we are now. I know people say I'm holding on to things that would not have any return. I know. But, I'm just doing things that I want to do. And I had return. Yesterday I gave her a bag, she smiled. That is the return I am looking for. A smile carved on her face. It is just, priceless.

What would I ask for more?

All these are definitely worthful. It is worthful.

Live life to the max!

Cheers =)

Just Awesome Part 2

2010-04-12T02:18:00.003+08:00

Another exciting day in Penang. Had a really nice sleep in the hotel. Then, we are off for another exciting journey in Penang.

The next destination is Kek Lok Si Temple. This temple is just awesome. On the way up to the temple, there are a lot of stalls that sells various types of things. But I can tell you one thing, the techniques the sellers use are just unethical. Imagine a mask where they initially offers you RM30. As we are walking away from the stall, the seller could offer you RM25, then RM15, then RM10, then lastly 2 masks for RM10. They actually marked up the price 6 times. Gosh~

The temple is just awesome with fantastic views and architecture. No words could explain them. Just awesome. I like the view from the hilltop. You could see whole Penang island from there. Again, just awesome! The statue of Guan Yin is just too nice. I couldnt resist myself to take picture of her.

We had Assam Laksa as lunch.

Then, we are off to Queensbay Mall. That mall is freaking big. Even bigger than 1Utama in Petaling Jaya. Recommended for people who are mad of shopping there. Spent around 1 hour 30 minutes there and we are off to Kampar. The most memorable moment is the Neway mascot actually took a lot of picture of us. We invited that mascot to go back UTAR with us. Just awesome! I feel sorry for the people inside the mascot as we are just fooling around with him. Sorry!

Back to Kampar around 8.15p.m. Thumbs up for the organizers such as Wan Pui Yee, Abigail Tan, Caryn Chong and others. All of you did a very very very good job =)

Another quote to share.

Happiness or sadness is not affected by the surroundings. But, your very own thinking.

I dont feel good or comfortable through out the trip. But, I realized that I shouldnt think so much and just enjoy the trip. I felt much more better after doing that.

Live life to the max!

Cheers =)

Just Awesome

2010-04-12T02:08:00.002+08:00

I'm back from the 2 days 1 night trip to Penang. This is also the first time I'm actually stepping my foot on Penang soil. Penang is equals to heaven of food. Quite true though, the food there are really awesome. Went to the Butterfly Farm and also the Spice Garden in the afternoon. Butterfly Farm was awesome with various types of butterflies and other insects such as scorpions. Could also find tortoise there. Thanks to Wan Pui Yee for her semi-pro camera. If not, I will be bored to death! Butterfly Farm is really just an awesome place to test your skills on photography =)

Next station is the Spice Garden. The helpful instructor is very knowledgable. He explains every details of the spices available. Those details are just awesome. One knowledge that I got from him is this. If you are scared of lizards. Take eggs shells and put it at every corner of your room. Then, there will never be lizards in your room anymore. Interesting right? I finally get to use my Nihongo (Japanese language) when I met a family of japanese worked at the batik factory. Talking nihongo with them is really a great experience. And their children is just too cute. I asked her how many years old is her in japanese. She answered "yon sai" which means 4 years old.

Food heaven in gurney is just awesome. We tried various types of food until we raise white flag! Gurney plaza is really big. Then, I spent my night at Malaysia Hotel. Though it is not a 5 star hotel, but it is really comfortable! Thumbs up for Chee Choon for finding us these type of accomodation.

So, this is part one of the Penang trip.

I realized that my E.Q is really really low. Emotion actually controls me to react strangely and I couldnt control my emotion for the first time. I know that we tend to do more when we like a person.

Perhaps I had overdone it.

Random Banana

2010-04-05T21:30:00.004+08:00

O Hai everybody! :D

I’m Jason’s friend and I obliged to ‘guest blog’ for our Mr Jason here for one day. He did me a favour today, so I am writing this in return for his favour.

HMM.. what should I scribble in here.

How about I start by writing about Jason, since this is his blog anyway, who else can I write about right? Haha. Well, according to my old and rusty memory (I am 81 years old:P), I got to know this dude through mutual friends, the usual hi and byes. However, there was one time where we really got to speak to each other, which was at the KTM station and eventually became quite good gao wans. I still consider him as a good friend although he constantly reminds me that I am fat and ugly and terencat akal without fail every single day. He also thinks that my mother accidentally dropped me when I was a baby that’s why I am who I am now. Thank you Jason -.-

HAHA.

Well, throughout the short duration I’ve known him, I think that he’s one helluva great friend lah. Though stubborn at times, and evil, and ego, and wicked..(ohh, I’m having fun at this, I can go on and on but I think I’ll just stop hereXP) he’s still nice. People, don’t be deceived by his physical, he’s harmless. HAHA

I think he’s sort of going through a hard time now after you-know-what, so here’s to you Jason, “CHEER UP YEA!”:B hoho

Ok, seeing that this blog also lacks photos, let’s try to upload some to ~~humiliate Jason~~ make this blog more lively. Muahaha.

Acting cool eh....

OMG dude! when was this pic taken ah? you looked so innocent here^^ LOLZZ

and last but not least..

JASON ACTING CUTE!!! HAHAHA this pic is EPIC man!! looooool

Alright folks.Enough of laughing alrdy. It's not nice to laugh at people you know..:D

Ok, that's all for today. Till next time!(or maybe not) SEE YA!!

Signing off,

Lil' Miss Sunshine

Recenty ....

2010-04-05T17:53:00.005+08:00

Things werent going as smooth as I expected with Manchester United defeats to Bayern Munich and also Chelsea. The title can considered 70% gone already unless Chelsea drop points in their coming matches. Manchester United was also one goal behind Bayern Munich and hope that they will turn things around in their home tie this Thursday midnight. Losing someone influential like Wayne Rooney affects them a little. This also reflects in our life, losing someone influential and important would affect us. So, cherish everybody you care before it is too late!

I went back for Ching Ming. This is the first time I went to my youngest uncle's "home". When I first saw him, my tears fell down. Not only me, my cousins, siblings, uncles and aunties cried. My grandmother couldnt barely stand up. You can see how bad is losing someone close. Again, cherish the person you care before it is too late!

I had presentation today. The presentation was smooth and we receives a lot of praises from the tutor, Mr. Paul. Mr. Paul is a tutor who would criticise you. Im relieve to get praises from him. He said, "boy boy ... Good job! This is the only presentation group that can make me understand the introduction part." I am glad to hear that as I was the presenter for the introduction part. He further commented that our group's presentation was very good. Thanks for your wish last night. Your wish is the motivation for me to do better. Perhaps it is. And it was proven =)

Again, cherish the one that you love most. As they will make a very very big impact on you!

Remember to live life to the max again!

Cheers =)

Long Road

2010-04-02T13:52:00.001+08:00

I'm here to make a statement ...

Jason Yeah is not going to give up!

Live life to the max!

Cheers =)

The One

2010-03-27T21:44:00.002+08:00

Life has been awesome these days. I'm enjoying every second of it with the companion of you by my side. If I were given a wish, I will wish that the moment that I spend my time with you will stop there and hope that you are always besides me.

Today is one of the most amazing day in my life. Being the first time to do a research and interview sessions with some villagers in the unknown village is a very very precious experience. And I am so glad that you are the person who goes through and share this experience with me.

There are some time when I look at you, my mind wanders around without any directions. Thinking and talking to myself, is she the one? I sometimes ask myself why do I like you so much. I just couldnt find the answer as I know that I am deeply in trouble. Deeply fallen to you. There isnt this kind of feeling so strong before happen in my life. Perhaps, i think that you are really the one. The one that I could depend and trust on with my life.

Every day, you are the first thing that comes into my mind when I wake up and you also are the last thing that comes into my mind when I goes to sleep. Initially, you will never be featured in my book of life. But now, you are the one who actually who make my book of life interesting and colourful. You are actually the one who starts and ends every topic of my book of life.

My life wouldnt be complete without you. I know that clearly.

I appreciate every day, every hour, every minutes, every seconds and every moment being with you.

Thanks for appearing in my life.

Live life to the max! =)

My Life

2010-03-13T23:27:00.002+08:00

Jason Yeah. Who dont know this person if you are in UTAR. This is the feedback i got from most of my friends.

I might be a popular person even I don't know I am. A friend of mine, Abigail Tan actually had green eye as the number of hi i received from the person who knows me is higher than her. She even tell her friends that I got a lot of friends and contacts. This is true though. A lot of people knows me even i do not know them. Sometimes, they come by and say hi to me and have a chat with me but i do not have any idea who they are. I was just like talking to a stranger.

Eventhough I might seems to have a lot of friends. But, I do not have any friends that could actually share my heart out. I do not have close friends where we would play together, eat together, study together and enjoy life together. I repeat. I dont have that kind of friends!

These few days, I was wondering why my friends always say my networking is wide and they are jealous because of this. In my life, there are only hi and bye friends. Sometimes, I also wonders why dont I have friends that I could really rely and trust on. For some people, they have friends that they are very very close to and could share everything out. I wonder, WHY didnt I have that type of friends.

I was eating dinner and lunch alone these few days. Trying to make myself happier by saying I would love to spend my time being alone. That didnt work really well when i see other tables full of laughters among themselves. They share same topic, laughter and they enjoy their time being together very much. And I'm envy of that.

This post is not reflecting I'm being emo. I was just wondering why people jealous of me having so many friends while I'm envy of them for having real good and close friends. Nothing more than that.

Still, everybody leads their own life. Perhaps this is mine.

Anyhow, dont forget to

Live life to the max! =)

Uncomfortable

2010-03-07T09:20:00.002+08:00

I hope I can feel better after writing this blog.

Life is like a roller coaster ride. At this time, you might feel you are on top of the world but in the next second you would end up at the bottom. That is what I'm feeling now. I thought I am at the top of the world the past few days until yesterday.

I had fallen to a girl. There is this attraction of hers really caught my attention. She has amazing personality, independent, doesnt like to depends on people and would like to complete her work by herself. There is only one word to describe her. Awesome. I had been single for more than one year now. No other girls could catch my attention like the way she does. And I realize that, i am not only interested in her but I like her.

Things were going smoothly with both of us spending time together, talking with each other, trying to understand each other and also messaging with each other. I know I had fallen into her when I would care of her. I enjoy talking to her and admire her sweet smile. Perhaps, that amazing smile catches most of my attention.

Things turn out to be wrong and totally upside down because of my own choice of action. I thought I could have lighten her burden a bit but I was totally wrong. I did not think of the consequences of my action and she is angry because of this. She didnt reply most of my smses anymore. Heart breaking. That's the only sentence that can describe me.

Yesterday I feel I was at the bottom of the world. That feelings isn't good at all. I hope things would be better soon. Hopefully.

Live life to the max.

Cheers

Appreciation

2010-01-17T02:51:00.002+08:00

First blog after New Year. Recently, a holiday back in Sungai Buloh, Selangor taught me a lot of things. There are a lot of differences and changes when I come back here. I start to agree that, people change over time.

My mother is becoming far more emotional nowadays. Maybe the heavy workloads of hers had got over her head and conscious. I dont remember when was the last time she smile. All I know is, she is getting very emotional. A small matter could make the fire in her head ignite and her nagging will start from there. I miss her smile. I really do. I count myself fortunate to be born by her. Because she is the greatest mother. And she will always be. She taught me a lot of teories of life. Teaching me what is important and what is not. And teach me to lock my target and go for it. And here I am, doing the things that she taught. Thanks a lot for being my mother =) Just hope you would not be that emotional anymore. God bless!

My dad the next. I know you are doing your best as the sole bread winner for this family. Thanks for correcting my english. Your comments, I will remember it. Thanks for all your guidance as well.

Would like to thank my other 2 dads and 3 mothers of mine. I was fortunate enough to be loved and caring of all of you. Without all of you, my life will not be as meaningful as now.

Thanks for being my FAMILY. Father And Mother, I Love You!

Wish all of you will,

Live life to the max!

Cheers =)

Happy New Year 2010!

2009-12-31T11:02:00.003+08:00

Today is New Year's Eve. The last day of the year 2009. I am so glad this year is coming to an end. To be honest, this year consider disastrous for me. Just hope 2010 will be a joyous and fruitful year for me. Not just only me, but also to you, the reader of my blog.

Happy New Year 2010!

Life

2009-11-22T12:03:00.003+08:00

These few days, i keep on thinking about the title up there. Life.

2009 has been a bad year for me. It really does. The reason why I say this is mainly because bad news keep coming to my ears and eyes. I found out that life is really fragile. You could be happy and playing around today but the next day, you maybe will find yourself either in the hospital or if serious, in the casket.

First bad news: While I was focusing for my Year 1 Sem 1 final exam, I received a sms from my sister. My sister told me that my uncle had passed away. He wouldnt be around anymore. He wont wake up anymore. To tell the truth, my uncle is really a very very good man. He would be given a prize of No.1 Uncle if there is this award in this world. He is a very cheerful man. Yet, a reunion with his friend lead him to death. He was drinking at the highway. Then, he want to go to "pee". Just couldnt accept the fact that he fall down from the highway, his ribs broken and penetrate his heart. And he died.

Second bad news: Every newspaper report about them. UTAR brand appears at most of the newspapers because of them too. Yes, the Batu Berangkai waterfall tragedy that led to death of 3 UTAR students. Eventhough I dont really know them and they dont know me, but i feel a sense of pity that this tragedy happens to them. A joyful outing leads to the death of 3 UTAR students. 3 very bright UTAR students too. What they left behind is, tears and sorrow from their beloved family and friends.

Third bad news: My buddy, Yok Chee Yuan's friend at Pahang is in the intensive care unit now. Yok told me that the day before he was admitted in the hospital, his friend called him for a chat and mentioned that he will come to UTAR next year to further his studies. But now he is in a very critical situation and had been coma for two weeks. The doctor told his family to prepare for the worst. But nothing can be done, all we can do is just pray together so he would overcome this difficulties.

Forth bad news: UTAR Year 1 Sem 3 advertising student, Lam Sei Whye had been diagnosed with Acute Myeloid Leukemia (AML), which is a type of blood cancer. She is currently receiving her treatment in Subang Jaya Medical Centre. The medical expenses required for her treatment is RM 200,000. And she is in a desperate form in terms of money. For fellow UTARians, please donate sincerely at the booth at the cafeteria start from 23th, 25th and 26th November to help our friend out there. Your donations will be greatly appreciated!

Last week, I had a dream that I was knocked by a very hard steel at my head. When I woke up, I found my body was lying on the floor with blood around my body. That time, I know I was dead. There is a blank on my mind and I realize I had not done what I wanted to do in my life yet. All I could do at that time was just repeating the phrase "I still got a lot of things havent do". I saw my mother sitting on the chair. She could not see me. That feeling of dead is really scary. You would not know what to do as your soul wanders around. I was thankful when I woke up finding myself still alive.

Life is really fragile. You would not expect what will happen at the next second. All tragedy happen because of our own carelessness. No matter what you do in life. Keep it in mind, safety is always the priority, not joy. Keep yourself safe so your family wont be crying next to your own coffin. Please, do take care of your own. If you have things and goals havent achieve yet, do it. Dont wait. I read a blog from my friend, Mei Poh. She regret as she will never ever have the chance to tell to the person what she have in her mind because that person is already dead.

Please dont let this happen to you.

Live life to the max ... Cheers =)

The Different Faces in South East Asia

2009-11-06T22:00:00.011+08:00

I introduce to you ...

The Different Faces of South East Asia, Touring Exhibition of Chia Hoy Sai's artworks.

The biography of the inspiring artist, Mr. Chia Hoy Sai

Thanks to the brochure in the male toilet and also the notification in the Foundation's notice board. I come to know about this meaningful art gallery.

This event is organised by the Soka Gakkai Malaysia organization. First time heard about this organization? This is also my first time to hear about this organization. To my suprise, Soka Gakkai is a religious organization that is under Buddhism but they only promote one sutra from Buddhism. Besides that, Soka Gakkai not only emphasizes on religion but they also promote peace and unity, cultures and also education.

Soka Gakkai is famous with their only one verse of chant which is "nam myo ho renge kyo". It is said that this verse will bring you guidance whenever you given up your life. From that verse, numerous guidelines will appear to help you get through your life and stand back up strong again. The founder and also president is Daisaku Ikeda Sen Sei who possessed more than 200 honorary doctorate degree and wrote manybooks. Great man isn't he?

Thanks to Miss Lok Bee Lan who is the Head for the Department of Soft Skills Competency and also a loyal member of Soka Gakkai for the meaning of Soka Gakkai and serving me more than 1 hour. And also my lecture classmate, Ong Yun Ru for the welcome. I know i waste most of your time. Sorry for that, but you really did a great job in your duty. Double thumbs up =)

Let's move on to the main thing of it ...

They live that life, but they complain nothing

Don't complain about your life

The picture of the day .....

The main idea of this picture is that there is a new life behind the fallen tree. Notice that the new life have a lot of challenges to sustain its own living, but the seedings still grows up no matter what challenges it face. Meaningful?

For more, for those UTAR students and those who live in Kampar. Please visit the exhibition at 2267A, Jalan Hala Timah 1. I am sure that you will have a different experience by visiting the exhibition.

Live life to the max. Cheers =)

God's Intention

2009-10-21T18:13:00.003+08:00

Human being has 2 eyes, 2 ears and 1 mouth ... i think all humans have these features unless they are physically abnormal ...

from here, we can see God's intention ... why do I say this is mainly because God gives us 2 eyes and 2 ears as He want us to observe more and listen more ... observe more about the current issues and listen to people's ideas to improve ourselves ...

the reason why God don't give us 2 mouths is because He doesn't want us to talk more than observing and listening ... He created us with 1 mouth is because He want us to talk only when it is neccessary ...

another reason why God created us with 2 hands is because He want us to do more than we talk ... everybody can talk, but none of them actually do as they talk ... that is His intention by giving us 2 hands ...

unfortunately, we nowadays talk more than observe ... talk more than listening ... and of course talk more than doing ...

so you know what is God's intention now ?

live life to the max ...

cheers =)

No Idea

2009-10-20T21:53:00.002+08:00

Just don't know why ... my heart don't feel comfortable tonight ... it is as though i face a lot of problems that make me feel stress ... it is as though i had lost something that had became a part of me for very long ...

but ... i didn't face any problems lately ... and i really have no idea why do i feel like this ... it is as though i am stuck in the middle and i dont have any solution to solve the problem ... thinking deeper, what is the problem ?

haih~ just pure dissapointment i guess ...

pure emo-ing ...

Conspiracy of the Rich

2009-10-13T18:54:00.004+08:00

My questions to you are :
1. Are you aware of the change of the global financial events?

2. Are you interested in knowing more about what is happening to the economics in the world today?

3. Are you interested of becoming a part of solution and not carrying the old saying of do well in academics, get a good job with a good pay cheques concept ? do you hope to become rich in the future and hoping to know how to do it ?

4. Do you hope to retire young and retire rich?

5. Do you hope to be part of those who does not fear the global recession if it happens in the market.

Great ... if you do hope to be a part of the solution and not becoming a problem ... i recommend to you this website ... http://conspiracyoftherich.com/read/toc

Robert Kiyosaki had launch his first online book in this website ... and it is totally free of charge ... his generousity and concern of this world had enable us to further our knowledge in knowing the tactics of becoming one part of solution ... this brand new book is also available in store ... Conspiracy of the Rich : The Eight New Rules of Money ...

if you dont have any free time or you think it is a waste to buy this book, simply click the link above and read the book online ... and it is totally free ...

live life to the max ...

cheers =)

Never Give Up

2009-10-02T22:18:00.003+08:00

there is this story that i want to share ... this story is picked as one of my favorites when i'm reading Why We Want You To Be Rich by Mr. Donald J. Trump and also Mr. Robert T. Kiyosaki ... both of them had joined forces to write this magnificent book ...

this story is originated from Mr. Trump's father when he keep reminding his children about not to give up no matter what we do in our life ... here it goes ...

this story is about a guy who loved soda, so he went into the soda business, with a product he called 3UP. It failed. So, he started again with a soda called 4UP. It failed, too. So, he decided to name his product 5UP and worked just as hard to make it work, but sure enough, if failed again. He realized that he still loved soda, so he tried again with a product named 6UP. It failed, and he gave up completely.

then, a few years later, someone else came up with a soda product and named it 7UP, which became a huge success ...

whats the moral of the story? it is mainly about not giving up and keep trying no matter you failed how many times ... interesting and meaningful ? i bet it is ...

live life to the max ... cheers =)

To You

2009-09-20T23:59:00.002+08:00

Late Mr. Pee Chu Choong ...

All the family members from Pee, Yeah and Liew families, would like to say ...

Thanks for everything that you have given us ... Your memories, generous smile and love for us ...

We wish you ... Rest In Peace ...

We will keep you in our heart ...

You will always be remembered =)

change of mood

2009-09-19T01:22:00.002+08:00

i go to bed on 1am sharp ... but after knowing that my dearest uncle had passed away ... quantitative techniques 1 exam is on 9am ... it is hard and impossible to get to sleep soundly ... i pray for my uncle to come into my dream to have a chat with me ... but he didnt appear ... i struggle with myself ... forcing myself to sleep ... finally ... i get to sleep at 4am ...

wake up at 6am ... to prepare myself for the exam at 9am ... stress and panic is the mood at that time ... i can only cramp every details inside my brain ... and release everything out in the exam ... thankfully, i manage to answer the questions ... though i know i made a mistake that will cost me to lose about 20 marks ... but ... it is better than nothing ...

have to give the credit to Tan Jing Cong to send me to my grandmother's house ... where my uncle is there already ... i saw my mom talking to my uncle at the coffin ... i finally see my uncle ... but, he is sleeping at the coffin ... wont wake up anymore ... i thought i could control my emotion ... but when my godfather hug me ... tears start to fall ... i knell down on the floor ... i feel very very bad ... mood at that time ... sad

went to yuvaraj's house for his farewell party ... he feel very happy when he saw me ... he thought i couldnt make it ... thanks for your dinner ... really appreciate it ... hope u dont mind that i leave early ... as you know, i have some personal problems ...

back to grandma's hse ... everything seems dull ... black and white is the color ... even the rice that you eat is black and white ... everything was so dull ... and the people around is either crying or asking the God why would He take such wonderful person away from us ...

we wont expect what will happen the next moment ... life is something fragile and you wont exect what will happen next ... appreciate everything you can at the moment ...

as my favorite quote ...

live life to the max ...

Another Left

2009-09-17T15:16:00.002+08:00

in my heart, he is always someone cheerful ... though he have a lot of problems such as getting in debt, divorce with his beloved wife, separate with his 3 beloved children ... he still can carve a smile on his face ...

when i was small ... i love to see him ... learning kung fu sparing styles from him ... played kung fu sparing with him ... and i was impress by his sense of agility ... he can manage to block all my attacks by using one hand ... can imagine how good is he ?

when i was small ... he always pamper me and my cousins by buying us sweets ... kids love sweets ... and he manage to create a song from sweets just for us ... how thoughtful is he right ?
in our heart, he is always the best uncle we could ever wish for ... maybe cause of his love on kids ... even you are not his child, he will treat u as his own child ...

as time pass by, i couldnt see the smile on his face anymore ... the last time i see him smiling is when the day he married ... we thought he got a good wife ... but his nightmare starts ... his wife got in the dominant position than he is ... he was forced to be double role ... one role is work hard for his family ... one more role is become a house-husband in his home ...

outside ... his wife would be in the dominant position and scold him like a dog ... we thought they are just playing ... but it wasnt to be ... all the time, his wife would scold him ... words such as "useless", "hopeless" will come out from his mouth ... she even scolded him in front of his friends and family members ... because of his love to his wife, he didnt even say a single word to go against his wife ... everybody say he is scared of his wife ... but for him ... he love his wife until he wont go against her ... for me ... she is just too much ...

his wife made a decision to leave him ... making a lot of cork and bull stories about compensation a wife should get from a divorce is just over the line ... his love for her had make him lost ... and ... he left us ...

now he is gone ... gone to reunite with his dad ...

my uncle is gone ... it is just too sudden ... but anyhow ... you will be missed ... you will be remembered ...

we will miss you ...

live life to the max ... cheers =)

Vacancy

2009-09-12T13:56:00.002+08:00

i'm planning to form a society in UTAR ... been thinking of this for about 2 weeks already ... friends and housemates thought i'm joking ... but i was not ... and i went to the UTAR Department of Students Affair to take the form to apply to form a society ...

i've been thinking of forming a society call Young Investors Society ... this society mainly focus on personal development of interest in investment for all UTAR students ... though some might say, there is Financial Economics Society ... yes, but they are course based and the members are mostly from Financial Economics course ... my purpose of forming Young Investors Society is to attract and gather every students from every faculty, every course to develop interest about investments ...

why do i have this intention to form this society ? the problem arose when most teenagers will leave out the business sections of every newspaper and focus mainly on entertainment section ... we have no idea on how to look at the graph of investments ... though we know the key to financial freedom is through passive incomes from investments ... finally, if we hold a mindset to study and score well in university ... wait for a good job and goob pay cheques ... by that time, we are already 26 or 27 ... if that time only we start to know of investments, it is already too late ... why not we just develop our interest, know the basic of investment and get rid of the word "investment is risky" ... for me, investment is not risky ... what is risky is, we invest without investment knowledge ... that is what bring most people down ...

thats for my objectives and purpose ... i have to gather up 13 members to start a comittee ...

and the most headache part is the secretary part ... till now, the secretary position is still vacant ...

Vacancy, anyone??

live life to the max ... cheers =)

To Turn The Word Around

2009-09-10T02:47:00.004+08:00

everyone of us will go through stages of life ... as we grow older, we see things even more ... learning things pratically gave us wonderful experience ... falling in love is a subject where we learn practically ... we learn how to take care of our partner, we learn how to share our feelings with each other WITHOUT LEARNING THEM FROM BOOK ...

and so, falling in love is one of the stages we will go through in our life ... yes, there will be happy moments when everything goes well ... but there will also be unhappy, frustrated moments esspecially when things goes bad and leads to break ups ... As Sir Isaac Newton famous law states that "for every action, there is equal and opposite reaction" ...

it takes a lot of courage and determination to stand back up from a break up ... but what make it even harder is when we have to accept the fact of the break up and be friends back with our ex partners ...

a lot of people i met said once a couple break up, they could never be friends back ... from what i see, that is the fact ... a lot of couple will feel awkward to meet each other, so they would rather dont meet each other ... if possible, for their whole life to avoid the awkward situation ...

but i want to ask, is it impossible for ex partners to be friends back when they break up ?

i had 4 ex girlfriends, there is not a problem to meet and talk back with the 1st and 2nd ex partners of mine ... we went to tea and movie session without saying no to each other ... the 3rd one is a bit troublesome cause we felt awkward ... the 4th one, there is nothing to say as she have been avoiding me since the day we broke up ...

a few days ago, i contact back with the 3rd one via MSN Messenger ... we chat a lot ... and we are both glad that we dont feel awkward ... she mentioned that she is happy that she could talk back to me like last time ... and i told her that im here with a mission ... i want to turn the word that states ex partners cant be friends back when they break up ... and im glad that i manage to turn the word around ...

my mission will complete when i could be friends back with the 4th one ... but that goal seems hard to achieve ... i recently know, she just blocked me in MSN Messenger ... we have lost the way to contact each other ... it will be a high mountain to climb ... haih

to all ex lovers who are yet to be friends back with their ex partners ... lets gather up the spirit TO TURN THE WORD AROUND ... you will be suprise on how much you can gain back ...

live life to the max ... cheers =)

To My UTAR Classmates ...

2009-09-04T21:45:00.002+08:00

my dear classmates ...

i will be organising a class outing for our class ... EN TG1 of 2009 ...

The detail of the event is as follows :

Proposed dates : 27th, 28th and 29th September 2009
Location : Pulau Pangkor
Fees : RM130 per person which includes :-
a)Accomodation at Seagull Beach Village Resort (3 to 6 sharings)
b)Food (6 meals which includes 1 BBQ seafood dinner)
c) Ferry and Taxi (2 ways)
d)Complimentary afternoon tea or coffee
e)Hall and KTV room (bring own CDs)
f)Internet and WiFi services
g)Hot water at cafeteria
h)Straw mat for beach use
i)Laundry

This trip is certainly affordable as i have checked the other resorts available on the beach ... to those who are interested in joining in the fun ... kindly leave your name and contact number in my comment box ...

Thanks !!

live life to the max ... cheers =)

Tips for Guys !!

2009-09-02T11:40:00.002+08:00

I found this article when i was browsing through facebook ... and it is kinda ... interesting ...

Actions speak louder than words... So it’s not only about the sweet things that you say to your girlfriend, its all about the things that you can do for her...

1.Call her as soon as you wake up just to say a good morning!
2.Have a busy day ahead? Meet up with your girlfriend for breakfast.
3.Call her at least once in the day to find if she was doing fine.
3.If she’s angry with you, get her flowers and chocolates.
4.Girls expect their boyfriends to listen to their problems: so just listen and do not offer solutions.
5.Give her time to be with herself; there are times when girls like to be alone.
6.Give her time to be with her girlfriends; you could catch up with your guy friends at the same time.
7.Take your girlfriend shopping.
8.Plan a surprise dinner for just the two of you at her favorite restaurant.
9.Paint her nails...she’ll love it.
10.If you are having a bad time and are upset about something, talk to your girlfriend about it; don’t expect her to understand your silence.
11.Try to sort out misunderstandings before they grow into something big.
12.Don’t force your girlfriend to do something she is not ready for.
13.Tell her that it is alright if she is not ready for something; more importantly, mean it.
14.Care for her, love her like no one else does.
15.You should have a unique way of telling her that you love her.
16.Girls are delicate, handle them with care.
17.Compliment her and you’ll see her look more beautiful.
18.Loving her is not only about mushy-mushy things; you could even play a game of scrabble together.
19.Go cycling or maybe, swimming together.
20.Get tickets for the latest movie; preferably the top row, and don’t forget the popcorn.
21.What about taking her for a picnic?
22.Cook a meal for her; preferably edible!
23.Candle-light dinners are the best way to cheer her up.
24.Catch up on a cup of coffee with your girl, if you have been busy for some time.
25.Share all your secrets with her.
26.Talk to her about your day - girls feel involved this way.
27.Girls love giving suggestions, at least pretend that it helped.
28.Honesty is the best policy - be honest to her and more importantly, to your relationship.
29.Give her the support and comfort she needs.
30.She loves you, you are her best friend - stand by her as her pillar of strength.
31.If you are good with the brush, you could paint a picture of your girlfriend.
32.Small words of appreciation will help for what she does for you.
33.Love her for what she is and not what you want her to be.
34.Sing her favorite song to her on the phone.
35.Enroll for salsa classes together.
36.Out of town for work, drive down and surprise her.
37.She has an important day ahead, make sure you see her before that and tell her that everything will be fine, she is perfect.
38.Going on a holiday with family? Make sure you get her something memorable. It doesn't have to be expensive.
39.After a hectic week, you could plan a weekend together to catch up with each other.
40.Lie down with your head on her lap - you’ll feel great and she’ll feel better.
41.Call her every ten minutes for not-so-important reasons, but make sure you do not overdo it.
42.Get a massage appointment just for the two of you.
43.Book the whole restaurant for just the two of you.
44.Take her for a long drive and maybe you could sit and admire the stars together.
45.A walk along the beach under the starry night sky is undoubtedly romantic.
46.Wear her favorite perfume all the time.
47.Admire her body as you give her a massage.
48.Some moments are best enjoyed in their own privacy; be sure of your timing.
49.Stay indoors on a wet Sunday evening and cuddle up together and watch a movie.
50.Meet up with her friends (obviously with her).
51.Be the ten-on-ten guy for her parents.
52.Don’t just love your girlfriend, respect her - it matters a lot.
53.Be proud of your relationship; flaunt it as the most expensive thing you possess.
54.Spend a night together in a tent at the beach.
55.Cuddle up on a couch and enjoy the feeling of just being together.
56.Everyone makes mistakes - forgive her if she makes one.
57.Celebrate your promotion with her - after all there’s a woman behind every successful man and she deserves to be a part of it.
58.SMS her from work just to tell her how much you are missing her.
59.Love knows no rules. If you know any break them for her.
60.Don’t do anything to break her trust - it hurts.
61.Stay up all night planning your next date.
62.If you are making love to her for the first time, make sure it is love and not lust.
63.When she’s having a bad time, give her a warm hug - she needs it the most.
64.A sweet good night kiss on the forehead and a warm hug is the perfect recipe for a good night's sleep.
65.Take your girlfriend lingerie shopping.
66.Write a song about her.
67.Help her clean up the apartment after a party.
68.Praying together in a religious place or even at home.
69.If she’s not well, take a day off just to be at her side.
70.Send out seasons’ greetings together.
71.Frame a sketch of the two of you together.
72.Carry her shopping bags for her.
73.Compliment her in different languages.
74.Send her no reason flowers.

I recommend you ...

2009-09-01T20:36:00.002+08:00

i always wanted to recommend a book for all my friends ... this book teaches me a lot of things that i do not learn in school ... teaches me how to be prepare to face the world outside ... i bring to you ...

here, rich dad poor dad by Robert T.Kiyosaki with Sharon L. Lechter ...

Mr. Robert T.Kiyosaki is a american japanese born in the state of Hawaii ... in this book, he describe how he go through his childhood by having 2 dads ... one is his own dad which he describe him educated but poor dad ... another dad is his friend's father which he describe him as uneducated but rich dad ... his book literally explains out what his 2 dads thought him in different perspective about money ... he applies the education that both of his dad gave him in making him towards the financial freedom ...

this book stresses tips and advice in story mode on how we achieve financial independence through investing, real estates, owning businesses and how we use finance protection tactics to avoid taxes ...

he further criticise the education system now dont prepare us to face the financial world in the REAL WORLD ... the old thinking of "study hard so you would get a safe and secure job with good paychecks" is no longer applicable in this era ... that is why we always see the rich is always the uneducated ones such as Dato Seri Lim Goh Tong, the founder of Genting Berhad ... and that is why we always see the educated ones work for the uneducated ones ...

this is a MUST READ book if ones want to excel in their life and be financially free from any debts and enjoy the continuous flow of their passive income ...

live life to the max ... cheers =)

Reading is Inspiring

2009-09-01T19:55:00.011+08:00

I come to know about BookFest @ Malaysia 2009 when i browse through http://www.thestar.com.my/ ...

besides celebrating Malaysia's 52nd birthday, the reason that i come back to KL from Kampar was mainly because of the event itself ... The event is located at the heart of the city, Kuala Lumpur Convenction Centre from 22nd to 31 August 2009 in conjunction of the national day celebration ... the bookfest occupies 5 halls from hall 1 to 5 ... can u imagine how big and grand the bookfest is ?

everybody who wishes to enter the bookfest had to pay rm2 as entrance fees and we will be given a booklet about the bookfest and also an entrance wristband ...

The booklet ... Simple yet meaningful ... Specially the slogan

the bookfest was filled with a lot of people ... many people from different race come join in the bookfest ... eventhough the fasting month of Ramadhan and also the country is infected with the pandemic influenza A(H1N1), the spirit and love for reading of the people brush it off ... this is something we could learn about ...

i spent around 3 hours in the bookfest ... spent about rm150 for the books ... it is amazingly cheap as i thought i would be paying around rm300 on those books ... it all thanks to the rebates and discount given by Popular ...

i bought these books with amazing 25% and 50% rebates ... amazing deal right?

so, what is my new added short term goal now ... i will have to go through my first semester final exam first which will be on 16th September ended at 26th September ... Then ......

i will have to finish reading these book that i bought at the bookfest ...

The reason i choose all these books are mainly from the influence of Mr Robert T.Kiyosaki, the writer of Rich Dad Poor Dad ...

Coming back to my goal ...

i think it will take me a year to finish all these books =="

still, as what my class representative, group member and good friend, Ch'ng Winn Shern quote ... Say NO to NO ... i will be able to finish all these books ...

live life to the max ... cheers =)

Move Along

2009-08-31T01:21:00.000+08:00

bringing in the spirit of All American Rejects ...
let's "move along"!!

Go ahead as you waste your days with thinking
When you fall everyone stands
Another day and you've had your fill of sinking
With the life held in your
Hands are shaking cold
These hands are meant to hold

Speak to me, when all you got to keep is strong
Move along, move along like I know you do
And even when your hope is gone
Move along, move along just to make it through
Move along
Move along

So a day when you've lost yourself completely
Could be a night when your life ends
Such a heart that will lead you to deceiving
All the pain held in your
Hands are shaking cold
Your hands are mine to hold

Speak to me, when all you got to keep is strong
Move along, move along like I know you do
And even when your hope is gone
Move along, move along just to make it through
Move along
(Go on, go on, go on, go on)

When everything is wrong we move along
(Go on, go on, go on, go on)
When everything is wrong, we move along
Along, along, along

When all you got to keep is strong
Move along, move along like I know you do
And even when your hope is gone
Move along, move along just to make it through
[x3]

(Move along)
(Go on, go on, go on, go on)
Right back what is wrong
We move along

source : http://artists.letssingit.com/the-all-american-rejects-lyrics-move-along-mb3bpm6

you will be remembered

2009-08-31T01:03:00.000+08:00

she once asked me this question ... "you think, those guys who beat their girlfriend is a bad guys right?"
and so i answered ... "definitely, those guys are total bastards and also trash ... having a girlfriend is to love and care them, not beat them"

i have been thinking of this question from her for days ... i dont feel comfortable these few days ... my heart is heavy and feel very uneasy ... and the main reason is obvious ... she found her new boyfriend since we broke up ... i have been wondering for days to figure out what type of guy her new boyfriend is ... and will that person be like those guys with bad guys lifestyle, and those who would beat their girlfriends ...

i found out the answer last night ... i dont know how to describe my reaction ... i was frustrated and pissed off to know that she return back to her ex boyfriend who beaten her last time ... after my answer on her question, she further states that she will never return to that guy again for what he had done to her in the past ... and now, the conclusion is ... she return back to him ... i'm not very sure on what she is thinking ... perhaps the saying is true ... in chinese proverbs, there is this verse saying "nan ren bu huai, nv ren bu ai" ... it meant woman wont like those guys who are good but they will fall badly for the bad ones ... i'm not so sure of the creditworthiness of this verse ... but if we applies it here ... it is true ...

i admit i'm dissapointed with this action of hers ...

but this action had thought me to give up ... stop the wait ... theres more things to be done besides waiting ... whenever i faces dissapointment, frustrated with myself, i will look at the sky ... the wide sky had thought me to see things in a bigger and wider dimension ... and it works ...

so what is the conclusion, the conclusion is ... i will put the courage to click on the delete button to delete off your pictures ... delete the poem that i've written for you ... before this, those are medicines to cure my drugs on you ... by seeing your personal message had made my heart numb ... those medicines dont work anymore ... so what is the point of keeping it ? i got to find a brand new medicine to cure the dissapointment ... and i know the only way is to stand back up myself ...

here, i wish you ... happy always with the person that you love ... pray that he wont repeat his bad actions and you would influence him to become a good man ... wishing you ... happy and good luck in your life ...

lastly, you will be remembered ...

time to move on ... the songs "move along" by the all american rejects really help ...

live life to the max ... cheers =)

Heys

2009-08-31T01:01:00.000+08:00

hey ...

i will be transfering my blog page from www.jx27.spaces.live.com to my very own blogspot here at www.jx27.blogspots.com ...

here ... i will post the way i live my life ... through ups and downs ... sweet and bitter ... happy or sorrow ... no matter what happen in life, i will not hide it up and will pour it out here ...

live life to the max ... cheers =)