To You

Late Mr. Pee Chu Choong ...

All the family members from Pee, Yeah and Liew families, would like to say ...

Thanks for everything that you have given us ... Your memories, generous smile and love for us ...

We wish you ... Rest In Peace ...

We will keep you in our heart ...

You will always be remembered =)

change of mood

i go to bed on 1am sharp ... but after knowing that my dearest uncle had passed away ... quantitative techniques 1 exam is on 9am ... it is hard and impossible to get to sleep soundly ... i pray for my uncle to come into my dream to have a chat with me ... but he didnt appear ... i struggle with myself ... forcing myself to sleep ... finally ... i get to sleep at 4am ...

wake up at 6am ... to prepare myself for the exam at 9am ... stress and panic is the mood at that time ... i can only cramp every details inside my brain ... and release everything out in the exam ... thankfully, i manage to answer the questions ... though i know i made a mistake that will cost me to lose about 20 marks ... but ... it is better than nothing ...

have to give the credit to Tan Jing Cong to send me to my grandmother's house ... where my uncle is there already ... i saw my mom talking to my uncle at the coffin ... i finally see my uncle ... but, he is sleeping at the coffin ... wont wake up anymore ... i thought i could control my emotion ... but when my godfather hug me ... tears start to fall ... i knell down on the floor ... i feel very very bad ... mood at that time ... sad

went to yuvaraj's house for his farewell party ... he feel very happy when he saw me ... he thought i couldnt make it ... thanks for your dinner ... really appreciate it ... hope u dont mind that i leave early ... as you know, i have some personal problems ...

back to grandma's hse ... everything seems dull ... black and white is the color ... even the rice that you eat is black and white ... everything was so dull ... and the people around is either crying or asking the God why would He take such wonderful person away from us ...

we wont expect what will happen the next moment ... life is something fragile and you wont exect what will happen next ... appreciate everything you can at the moment ...

as my favorite quote ...

live life to the max ...

Another Left

in my heart, he is always someone cheerful ... though he have a lot of problems such as getting in debt, divorce with his beloved wife, separate with his 3 beloved children ... he still can carve a smile on his face ...

when i was small ... i love to see him ... learning kung fu sparing styles from him ... played kung fu sparing with him ... and i was impress by his sense of agility ... he can manage to block all my attacks by using one hand ... can imagine how good is he ?

when i was small ... he always pamper me and my cousins by buying us sweets ... kids love sweets ... and he manage to create a song from sweets just for us ... how thoughtful is he right ?
in our heart, he is always the best uncle we could ever wish for ... maybe cause of his love on kids ... even you are not his child, he will treat u as his own child ...

as time pass by, i couldnt see the smile on his face anymore ... the last time i see him smiling is when the day he married ... we thought he got a good wife ... but his nightmare starts ... his wife got in the dominant position than he is ... he was forced to be double role ... one role is work hard for his family ... one more role is become a house-husband in his home ...

outside ... his wife would be in the dominant position and scold him like a dog ... we thought they are just playing ... but it wasnt to be ... all the time, his wife would scold him ... words such as "useless", "hopeless" will come out from his mouth ... she even scolded him in front of his friends and family members ... because of his love to his wife, he didnt even say a single word to go against his wife ... everybody say he is scared of his wife ... but for him ... he love his wife until he wont go against her ... for me ... she is just too much ...

his wife made a decision to leave him ... making a lot of cork and bull stories about compensation a wife should get from a divorce is just over the line ... his love for her had make him lost ... and ... he left us ...

now he is gone ... gone to reunite with his dad ...

my uncle is gone ... it is just too sudden ... but anyhow ... you will be missed ... you will be remembered ...

we will miss you ...

live life to the max ... cheers =)

Vacancy

i'm planning to form a society in UTAR ... been thinking of this for about 2 weeks already ... friends and housemates thought i'm joking ... but i was not ... and i went to the UTAR Department of Students Affair to take the form to apply to form a society ...

i've been thinking of forming a society call Young Investors Society ... this society mainly focus on personal development of interest in investment for all UTAR students ... though some might say, there is Financial Economics Society ... yes, but they are course based and the members are mostly from Financial Economics course ... my purpose of forming Young Investors Society is to attract and gather every students from every faculty, every course to develop interest about investments ...

why do i have this intention to form this society ? the problem arose when most teenagers will leave out the business sections of every newspaper and focus mainly on entertainment section ... we have no idea on how to look at the graph of investments ... though we know the key to financial freedom is through passive incomes from investments ... finally, if we hold a mindset to study and score well in university ... wait for a good job and goob pay cheques ... by that time, we are already 26 or 27 ... if that time only we start to know of investments, it is already too late ... why not we just develop our interest, know the basic of investment and get rid of the word "investment is risky" ... for me, investment is not risky ... what is risky is, we invest without investment knowledge ... that is what bring most people down ...

thats for my objectives and purpose ... i have to gather up 13 members to start a comittee ...

and the most headache part is the secretary part ... till now, the secretary position is still vacant ...

Vacancy, anyone??

live life to the max ... cheers =)

To Turn The Word Around

everyone of us will go through stages of life ... as we grow older, we see things even more ... learning things pratically gave us wonderful experience ... falling in love is a subject where we learn practically ... we learn how to take care of our partner, we learn how to share our feelings with each other WITHOUT LEARNING THEM FROM BOOK ...

and so, falling in love is one of the stages we will go through in our life ... yes, there will be happy moments when everything goes well ... but there will also be unhappy, frustrated moments esspecially when things goes bad and leads to break ups ... As Sir Isaac Newton famous law states that "for every action, there is equal and opposite reaction" ...

it takes a lot of courage and determination to stand back up from a break up ... but what make it even harder is when we have to accept the fact of the break up and be friends back with our ex partners ...

a lot of people i met said once a couple break up, they could never be friends back ... from what i see, that is the fact ... a lot of couple will feel awkward to meet each other, so they would rather dont meet each other ... if possible, for their whole life to avoid the awkward situation ...

but i want to ask, is it impossible for ex partners to be friends back when they break up ?

i had 4 ex girlfriends, there is not a problem to meet and talk back with the 1st and 2nd ex partners of mine ... we went to tea and movie session without saying no to each other ... the 3rd one is a bit troublesome cause we felt awkward ... the 4th one, there is nothing to say as she have been avoiding me since the day we broke up ...

a few days ago, i contact back with the 3rd one via MSN Messenger ... we chat a lot ... and we are both glad that we dont feel awkward ... she mentioned that she is happy that she could talk back to me like last time ... and i told her that im here with a mission ... i want to turn the word that states ex partners cant be friends back when they break up ... and im glad that i manage to turn the word around ...

my mission will complete when i could be friends back with the 4th one ... but that goal seems hard to achieve ... i recently know, she just blocked me in MSN Messenger ... we have lost the way to contact each other ... it will be a high mountain to climb ... haih

to all ex lovers who are yet to be friends back with their ex partners ... lets gather up the spirit TO TURN THE WORD AROUND ... you will be suprise on how much you can gain back ...

live life to the max ... cheers =)

To My UTAR Classmates ...

my dear classmates ...

i will be organising a class outing for our class ... EN TG1 of 2009 ...

The detail of the event is as follows :

Proposed dates : 27th, 28th and 29th September 2009
Location : Pulau Pangkor
Fees : RM130 per person which includes :-
a)Accomodation at Seagull Beach Village Resort (3 to 6 sharings)
b)Food (6 meals which includes 1 BBQ seafood dinner)
c) Ferry and Taxi (2 ways)
d)Complimentary afternoon tea or coffee
e)Hall and KTV room (bring own CDs)
f)Internet and WiFi services
g)Hot water at cafeteria
h)Straw mat for beach use
i)Laundry

This trip is certainly affordable as i have checked the other resorts available on the beach ... to those who are interested in joining in the fun ... kindly leave your name and contact number in my comment box ...

Thanks !!

live life to the max ... cheers =)

Tips for Guys !!

I found this article when i was browsing through facebook ... and it is kinda ... interesting ...

Actions speak louder than words... So it’s not only about the sweet things that you say to your girlfriend, its all about the things that you can do for her...

1.Call her as soon as you wake up just to say a good morning!
2.Have a busy day ahead? Meet up with your girlfriend for breakfast.
3.Call her at least once in the day to find if she was doing fine.
3.If she’s angry with you, get her flowers and chocolates.
4.Girls expect their boyfriends to listen to their problems: so just listen and do not offer solutions.
5.Give her time to be with herself; there are times when girls like to be alone.
6.Give her time to be with her girlfriends; you could catch up with your guy friends at the same time.
7.Take your girlfriend shopping.
8.Plan a surprise dinner for just the two of you at her favorite restaurant.
9.Paint her nails...she’ll love it.
10.If you are having a bad time and are upset about something, talk to your girlfriend about it; don’t expect her to understand your silence.
11.Try to sort out misunderstandings before they grow into something big.
12.Don’t force your girlfriend to do something she is not ready for.
13.Tell her that it is alright if she is not ready for something; more importantly, mean it.
14.Care for her, love her like no one else does.
15.You should have a unique way of telling her that you love her.
16.Girls are delicate, handle them with care.
17.Compliment her and you’ll see her look more beautiful.
18.Loving her is not only about mushy-mushy things; you could even play a game of scrabble together.
19.Go cycling or maybe, swimming together.
20.Get tickets for the latest movie; preferably the top row, and don’t forget the popcorn.
21.What about taking her for a picnic?
22.Cook a meal for her; preferably edible!
23.Candle-light dinners are the best way to cheer her up.
24.Catch up on a cup of coffee with your girl, if you have been busy for some time.
25.Share all your secrets with her.
26.Talk to her about your day - girls feel involved this way.
27.Girls love giving suggestions, at least pretend that it helped.
28.Honesty is the best policy - be honest to her and more importantly, to your relationship.
29.Give her the support and comfort she needs.
30.She loves you, you are her best friend - stand by her as her pillar of strength.
31.If you are good with the brush, you could paint a picture of your girlfriend.
32.Small words of appreciation will help for what she does for you.
33.Love her for what she is and not what you want her to be.
34.Sing her favorite song to her on the phone.
35.Enroll for salsa classes together.
36.Out of town for work, drive down and surprise her.
37.She has an important day ahead, make sure you see her before that and tell her that everything will be fine, she is perfect.
38.Going on a holiday with family? Make sure you get her something memorable. It doesn't have to be expensive.
39.After a hectic week, you could plan a weekend together to catch up with each other.
40.Lie down with your head on her lap - you’ll feel great and she’ll feel better.
41.Call her every ten minutes for not-so-important reasons, but make sure you do not overdo it.
42.Get a massage appointment just for the two of you.
43.Book the whole restaurant for just the two of you.
44.Take her for a long drive and maybe you could sit and admire the stars together.
45.A walk along the beach under the starry night sky is undoubtedly romantic.
46.Wear her favorite perfume all the time.
47.Admire her body as you give her a massage.
48.Some moments are best enjoyed in their own privacy; be sure of your timing.
49.Stay indoors on a wet Sunday evening and cuddle up together and watch a movie.
50.Meet up with her friends (obviously with her).
51.Be the ten-on-ten guy for her parents.
52.Don’t just love your girlfriend, respect her - it matters a lot.
53.Be proud of your relationship; flaunt it as the most expensive thing you possess.
54.Spend a night together in a tent at the beach.
55.Cuddle up on a couch and enjoy the feeling of just being together.
56.Everyone makes mistakes - forgive her if she makes one.
57.Celebrate your promotion with her - after all there’s a woman behind every successful man and she deserves to be a part of it.
58.SMS her from work just to tell her how much you are missing her.
59.Love knows no rules. If you know any break them for her.
60.Don’t do anything to break her trust - it hurts.
61.Stay up all night planning your next date.
62.If you are making love to her for the first time, make sure it is love and not lust.
63.When she’s having a bad time, give her a warm hug - she needs it the most.
64.A sweet good night kiss on the forehead and a warm hug is the perfect recipe for a good night's sleep.
65.Take your girlfriend lingerie shopping.
66.Write a song about her.
67.Help her clean up the apartment after a party.
68.Praying together in a religious place or even at home.
69.If she’s not well, take a day off just to be at her side.
70.Send out seasons’ greetings together.
71.Frame a sketch of the two of you together.
72.Carry her shopping bags for her.
73.Compliment her in different languages.
74.Send her no reason flowers.

I recommend you ...

i always wanted to recommend a book for all my friends ... this book teaches me a lot of things that i do not learn in school ... teaches me how to be prepare to face the world outside ... i bring to you ...

here, rich dad poor dad by Robert T.Kiyosaki with Sharon L. Lechter ...

Mr. Robert T.Kiyosaki is a american japanese born in the state of Hawaii ... in this book, he describe how he go through his childhood by having 2 dads ... one is his own dad which he describe him educated but poor dad ... another dad is his friend's father which he describe him as uneducated but rich dad ... his book literally explains out what his 2 dads thought him in different perspective about money ... he applies the education that both of his dad gave him in making him towards the financial freedom ...

this book stresses tips and advice in story mode on how we achieve financial independence through investing, real estates, owning businesses and how we use finance protection tactics to avoid taxes ...

he further criticise the education system now dont prepare us to face the financial world in the REAL WORLD ... the old thinking of "study hard so you would get a safe and secure job with good paychecks" is no longer applicable in this era ... that is why we always see the rich is always the uneducated ones such as Dato Seri Lim Goh Tong, the founder of Genting Berhad ... and that is why we always see the educated ones work for the uneducated ones ...

this is a MUST READ book if ones want to excel in their life and be financially free from any debts and enjoy the continuous flow of their passive income ...

live life to the max ... cheers =)

Reading is Inspiring

I come to know about BookFest @ Malaysia 2009 when i browse through http://www.thestar.com.my/ ...

besides celebrating Malaysia's 52nd birthday, the reason that i come back to KL from Kampar was mainly because of the event itself ... The event is located at the heart of the city, Kuala Lumpur Convenction Centre from 22nd to 31 August 2009 in conjunction of the national day celebration ... the bookfest occupies 5 halls from hall 1 to 5 ... can u imagine how big and grand the bookfest is ?

everybody who wishes to enter the bookfest had to pay rm2 as entrance fees and we will be given a booklet about the bookfest and also an entrance wristband ...

The booklet ... Simple yet meaningful ... Specially the slogan

the bookfest was filled with a lot of people ... many people from different race come join in the bookfest ... eventhough the fasting month of Ramadhan and also the country is infected with the pandemic influenza A(H1N1), the spirit and love for reading of the people brush it off ... this is something we could learn about ...

i spent around 3 hours in the bookfest ... spent about rm150 for the books ... it is amazingly cheap as i thought i would be paying around rm300 on those books ... it all thanks to the rebates and discount given by Popular ...

i bought these books with amazing 25% and 50% rebates ... amazing deal right?


so, what is my new added short term goal now ... i will have to go through my first semester final exam first which will be on 16th September ended at 26th September ... Then ......


i will have to finish reading these book that i bought at the bookfest ...

The reason i choose all these books are mainly from the influence of Mr Robert T.Kiyosaki, the writer of Rich Dad Poor Dad ...

Coming back to my goal ...

i think it will take me a year to finish all these books =="

still, as what my class representative, group member and good friend, Ch'ng Winn Shern quote ... Say NO to NO ... i will be able to finish all these books ...

live life to the max ... cheers =)