To Turn The Word Around

everyone of us will go through stages of life ... as we grow older, we see things even more ... learning things pratically gave us wonderful experience ... falling in love is a subject where we learn practically ... we learn how to take care of our partner, we learn how to share our feelings with each other WITHOUT LEARNING THEM FROM BOOK ...

and so, falling in love is one of the stages we will go through in our life ... yes, there will be happy moments when everything goes well ... but there will also be unhappy, frustrated moments esspecially when things goes bad and leads to break ups ... As Sir Isaac Newton famous law states that "for every action, there is equal and opposite reaction" ...

it takes a lot of courage and determination to stand back up from a break up ... but what make it even harder is when we have to accept the fact of the break up and be friends back with our ex partners ...

a lot of people i met said once a couple break up, they could never be friends back ... from what i see, that is the fact ... a lot of couple will feel awkward to meet each other, so they would rather dont meet each other ... if possible, for their whole life to avoid the awkward situation ...

but i want to ask, is it impossible for ex partners to be friends back when they break up ?

i had 4 ex girlfriends, there is not a problem to meet and talk back with the 1st and 2nd ex partners of mine ... we went to tea and movie session without saying no to each other ... the 3rd one is a bit troublesome cause we felt awkward ... the 4th one, there is nothing to say as she have been avoiding me since the day we broke up ...

a few days ago, i contact back with the 3rd one via MSN Messenger ... we chat a lot ... and we are both glad that we dont feel awkward ... she mentioned that she is happy that she could talk back to me like last time ... and i told her that im here with a mission ... i want to turn the word that states ex partners cant be friends back when they break up ... and im glad that i manage to turn the word around ...

my mission will complete when i could be friends back with the 4th one ... but that goal seems hard to achieve ... i recently know, she just blocked me in MSN Messenger ... we have lost the way to contact each other ... it will be a high mountain to climb ... haih

to all ex lovers who are yet to be friends back with their ex partners ... lets gather up the spirit TO TURN THE WORD AROUND ... you will be suprise on how much you can gain back ...

live life to the max ... cheers =)